Enforcing Court Orders
You will learn:
1. What this process does.
2. When you can file.
3. Tips for surviving.
1. What Happens
The case is reopened to enforce the Parenting Plan.
Parts of the Parenting Plan
- The parenting time schedule
- How life decisions for the kids should be made
- Where the kids live
- Insurance coverage for the kids
These changes may result in the child support payment changing too.
2. Can you File?
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When Can You File?
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- You have a parenting plan issued by the court.
- One parent is not complying with the orders.
These are the qualifications to give the Court jurisdiction.
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Who Can File?
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- The parent who wants the other parent to follow the order.
These are the qualifications to give someone standing.
3. Terms
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Motion Concerning Parenting Time Disputes
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The formal legal name for this type of request.
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Jurisdiction
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The legal qualifications needed for a Court to be able to help your family.
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Standing
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The legal qualifications needed for a person to start or participate in a case.
4. Be Kind
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Do No Harm
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Avoid Emotional Harm
- Don't talk badly about the other parent in front of the kids.
- Don't harm the children's relationship with the other parent.
Decision Making
- Intense emotions can cloud your thought process.
- When emotions take over, it takes 20 to 30 minutes to calm down.
- Take that time before making choices. Or,
- Wait until the next day to make a legal decision.
- With a calm mind, you can make decisions that are right for your family.
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A Time of Stress
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Find productive ways to manage your:
Stress
- Get organized
- Eat well
- Get rest, and
- Exercise.
Emotions
- Develop a support system of adults.
- Find positive ways to deal with tough emotions.
Disappointment
- You won't get everything you want.
- Get legal help, if possible, to make realistic requests.
- See that the Court has to make difficult decisions.
- Find ways to express your emotions that do not harm your family.