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Step 1 - Basics

Enforcing Court Orders

 

You will learn:

 

             1.  What this process does.
             2.  When you can file.
             3.  Tips for surviving.

 

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1.  What Happens

 

The case is reopened to enforce the Parenting Plan.

 

Parts of the Parenting Plan

  • The parenting time schedule
  • How life decisions for the kids should be made
  • Where the kids live
  • Insurance coverage for the kids

 

These changes may result in the child support payment changing too.

 

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2.  Can you File?

 

When Can You File?

 

  • You have a parenting plan issued by the court.
  • One parent is not complying with the orders.

 

These are the qualifications to give the Court jurisdiction.

 

Who Can File?

 

  1. The parent who wants the other parent to follow the order.

 

These are the qualifications to give someone standing.

 

 

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3.  Terms

 

Motion Concerning Parenting Time Disputes

 

The formal legal name for this type of request.

 

Jurisdiction

 

The legal qualifications needed for a Court to be able to help your family.

 

Standing

 

The legal qualifications needed for a person to start or participate in a case.

 

 

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4.  Be Kind

 

Do No Harm

 

Avoid Emotional Harm
  • Don't talk badly about the other parent in front of the kids.
  • Don't harm the children's relationship with the other parent.

 

Decision Making
  • Intense emotions can cloud your thought process.
  • When emotions take over, it takes 20 to 30 minutes to calm down.
    • Take that time before making choices.  Or,
    • Wait until the next day to make a legal decision.
  • With a calm mind, you can make decisions that are right for your family.

 

A Time of Stress

 

Find productive ways to manage your:

 

Stress
  • Get organized
  • Eat well
  • Get rest, and
  • Exercise.

 

Emotions
  • Develop a support system of adults.
  • Find positive ways to deal with tough emotions.

 

Disappointment
  • You won't get everything you want.
  • Get legal help, if possible, to make realistic requests.
  • See that the Court has to make difficult decisions.
  • Find ways to express your emotions that do not harm your family.

 

 

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Next Steps

 

Next  –     FIle the Case  or    Respond to the Case

 

Go To  –     Case Overview